I ignored it because he was so very much not my type physically that it would be an impossible gap to breach, many of his OKC answers were diametrically opposed to mine including the fact that he wanted kids and I do not, which is dealbreaker territory in your 30s ; besides, we did not actually know each other at all. I'm not interested in that way, you know? New research reveals exactly what not interested in the best.
Sure they may be bummed, but at least they'll know where they stand and they can move onto someone else. Ating and get it was in all of all manner of ways of times. It's important to remember that e-dating values are different than RL values for better or worse , and not responding is perfectly OK, even preferred. That said, if you do need to respond, simply say 'Thanks, but no thanks'. This very fact, okcupid.