Once I finally accepted that my relationship with his mother might not be salvageable, I was able to take a closer look at my relationship with my then-partner. You can make it up in other ways. If you notice that everything seems to be conspiring against someone, and they're always the first to tell you about it, something is probably rotten in Mudville.
My ex eventually resorted to this kind of behavior, attempted to guilt me if I "abandoned" him he used that word often. It wasn't about me, and it wasn't my job to fix it. They can't see the abuse I deserve. Slow and steady keeps you healthy. Group 7 Created with Sketch. In hindsight, I realized that he was trying to hide his own ignorance. I had to stop making excuses for the abusive people in my life before I could allow myself to consider cutting ties with them.