You can get as imaginative as you want with it.
As an English major in college, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about topics that interest her. That first exchange sets the tone for the rest of the relationship, so you should go beyond one-word openers and say something to give your date a laugh. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating expert. Paying her a more meaningful compliment is a breath of fresh air for her. Send her a light-hearted follow up message like this one:. There is no her.